{"id":1321,"date":"2017-03-19T12:13:29","date_gmt":"2017-03-19T12:13:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danielgomezpsicologia.com\/ca\/?p=1321"},"modified":"2017-03-19T20:15:33","modified_gmt":"2017-03-19T20:15:33","slug":"valor-duna-mirada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/danielgomezpsicologia.com\/ca\/valor-duna-mirada\/","title":{"rendered":"El valor d’una mirada"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un tema que se’m fa present amb freq\u00fc\u00e8ncia \u00e9s el valor dels diners<\/strong>, el detonant d’aquesta reflexi\u00f3 \u00e9s dificil de determinar, encara que hi ha una idea recurrent: ens tranquil\u00b7litza pensar que som \u00e9ssers racionals i prenem les decisions a tenor dels factors externs, que poques vegades \u00e9s l’emoci\u00f3 qui determina els nostres moviments.<\/em> Em sembla un error important, m\u00e9s tenint en compte que la conseq\u00fc\u00e8ncia primera \u00e9s que no som honests amb nosaltres mateixos.<\/p>\n

Fa ja uns anys que els investigadors, especialment en l’\u00e0mbit de les neuroci\u00e8ncies, v\u00e9nen demostrant que el processament cognitiu (que entenem per racional), t\u00e9 poc que dir en el proc\u00e9s de presa de decisions, la millor prova d’aix\u00f2 \u00e9s l’auge del neuromarketing<\/em>, que investiga i aprofita aquesta circumst\u00e0ncia per vendre’ns el que no necessitem, per\u00f2 d’alguna manera desitgem.<\/p>\n

Em sembla interessant reflexionar sobre com justifiquem la inversi\u00f3 dels nostres recursos econ\u00f2mics, com ens expliquem que un cotxe de 18.000 euros \u00e9s necessari i un aliment de 2 euros \u00e9s car. En tot aquest proc\u00e9s no es pot perdre de vista el model econ\u00f2mic-social predominant, que ens diu que el mercat s’autoregula i els preus s’ajusten en funci\u00f3 de l’oferta i la demanda, etc. Els factors culturals que invisibilitzen altres formes de gesti\u00f3 dels recursos. Els interessos despr\u00e9s del sistema laboral al que arribem a veure’ns sotmesos. Aix\u00ed mateix seria un error ometre la responsabilitat de cada individu, de quina manera justifico que faig el que puc i\/o el que vull.<\/p>\n

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“Quan compres, no compres amb els diners, compres amb el temps de la teva vida que vas haver de gastar per guanyar aquests diners.” Jos\u00e9 M\u00fajica<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Qu\u00e8 obtenim en comprar un rellotge car?<\/p>\n

Una hora m\u00e9s precisa? Ho dubto, i en tot cas haurem invertit una quantitat enorme d’aquestes en aconseguir-ho… Quan adquirim determinats b\u00e9ns, un dels principals objectius \u00e9s<\/strong> l’experi\u00e8ncia excitant dels primers instants de possessi\u00f3, una sensaci\u00f3 equiparable a la del nen que obre el paquet de cromos, la borsa de Gusanitos, o el regal d’aniversari. La difer\u00e8ncia \u00e9s la inversi\u00f3 que requereix cada producte i la fantasia de felicitat que acompanya als adults com a conseq\u00fc\u00e8ncia del bombardeig informatiu al que ens veiem sotmesos (cal detenir-se a mirar la publicitat i els models d’\u00e8xit).<\/p>\n

El segon objectiu<\/strong> diria que \u00e9s alterar la percepci\u00f3 que els altres tenen de nosaltres, sentir-nos poderosos, interessants, macos, en definitiva, sentir-nos vists. Una necessitat prim\u00e0ria, com a \u00e9ssers socials que som, per\u00f2 adulterada per la cultura de l’individualisme, “vull que em vegis, no que ens vegem (o aix\u00f2 crec)”. En lloc de tractar d’igualar-nos a l’altre i posar-nos a la seva mateixa altura per poder mirar-nos als ulls, pretenem estar a dalt, per poder mirar amb sup\u00e8rbia i seguretat. Per\u00f2 aix\u00f2 no \u00e9s possible, partint ja de l’origen d’aquesta necessitat, ja que sense l’altre no em sento vist i tota la meva pel\u00b7l\u00edcula queda coixa. Resulta massa enrevessat per ser cert, si l’altre no em mira no s\u00e9 qui s\u00f3c i la forma que conec d’atreure la seva mirada \u00e9s des de l’orgull i la vanitat.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s m\u00e9s senzill mirar-se de tu a tu, sense m\u00e0scares, amb la confian\u00e7a que l’altre no ens va a danyar i que necessita els mateix que nosaltres, per\u00f2 mirar aix\u00ed fa por, gaireb\u00e9 tant com plaer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un primer pas pot ser recon\u00e8ixer que no tenim el control absolut de les nostres eleccions. Des de la humilitat i sensibilitat tamb\u00e9 es cometen errors, per\u00f2 aquests ens acosten m\u00e9s a les nostres necessitats reals i per tant a la seva satisfacci\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s necessari preguntar-se: qu\u00e8 s’oculta darrere de la meva ambici\u00f3 o la meva necessitat de consumir?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Un tema que se’m fa present amb freq\u00fc\u00e8ncia \u00e9s el valor dels diners, el detonant d’aquesta reflexi\u00f3 \u00e9s dificil de determinar, encara que hi ha una idea recurrent: ens tranquil\u00b7litza pensar que som \u00e9ssers racionals i prenem les decisions a tenor dels factors externs, que poques vegades \u00e9s l’emoci\u00f3 qui determina els nostres moviments. 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